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bojojoti ([personal profile] bojojoti) wrote2011-04-28 09:34 pm
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For all the mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law and the men caught in the middle


I've been going through piles of paper--boxes and boxes of the stuff.  Before computers, I saved clippings, and I've obviously had this one since 1996.  It still makes me smile!  Now, it is scanned and saved on the computer, and the clipping has been trashed.  Much cleaner and more accessible!

I love this poem especially because it reminds me of an incident early in our marriage.  Mr. Bojo approached me, offering me a sock.  I was perplexed at what he wanted when he complained that the sock had a hole in it.  At the confused look on my face, he explained that his grandmother always darned the holes in his sock.  Ah!  He thought I could darn his sock!  I did.  I took the offending sock, walked it to the trash, and as I dropped it in, I theatrically exclaimed, "Darn sock!"  And then I laughed hysterically at the shocked look on his face!  When I explained that any darning I would attempt would leave him hobbled and hirpling in pain, he joined in the laughter.  I've been "darning" his socks the same way since then.   

[identity profile] singersdd.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
*LIKE*

I'm very glad that Guy has never said, "That's not the way Mom does it," to me.

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
My MIL made great pies. I wouldn't even try to attempt to match her lemon meringue or cherry cream.

But, thankfully, I've not had to contend with comparisons, either!

[identity profile] auntconi.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 06:02 am (UTC)(link)
ahahaha ... love the way you 'darn socks' ... :)

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 07:08 am (UTC)(link)
Darn sock!

[identity profile] curiouswombat.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 09:02 am (UTC)(link)
Life is not only too short to stuff a mushroom - it is too short to darn socks in any sense but yours!

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 08:04 pm (UTC)(link)
For certain!

[identity profile] crooked-halo.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 11:56 am (UTC)(link)
Cute poem and your story made me chuckle! Darning socks... love that!

I am fortunate in that, if my husband doesn't like the way I do something (like cooking a specific dish) he does it himself. This is a fantastic quality that I do love very much :) It results in many meals cooked by him, since he's so picky about how his meat is done!

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 09:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Since our son left home, my husband does the cooking, and I appreciate it, too!

[identity profile] tomnoir.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 01:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Peeling grapes is where I draw the line.

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
You have your standards!

[identity profile] lorelei-n.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 06:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Sent it to my husband. LOL

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope he finds it amusing, too.

[identity profile] advoir.livejournal.com 2011-04-29 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't want my wife to do anything the way my mother did it. I'm never disappointed. :D

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-04-30 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
I wouldn't want my husband to do anything the way my step-father did! Thankfully, my husband doesn't have to go far to exceed him in many respects.

[identity profile] advoir.livejournal.com 2011-04-30 01:41 am (UTC)(link)
:)

[identity profile] arhyalon.livejournal.com 2011-04-30 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
LOL

Boy I laughed at your sock story...I darn them that way, too.

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-04-30 10:00 am (UTC)(link)
It's a favorite memory!

[identity profile] jazzyglo.livejournal.com 2011-05-05 07:21 pm (UTC)(link)
Hahaha!!! Good for you!

[identity profile] bojojoti.livejournal.com 2011-05-06 07:35 am (UTC)(link)
:D